It happens – we can love and hate at the same time. When it comes to family and because of a natural bond – we love. But, being family doesn’t mean because you love that it is impossible to hate at the same time. It is possible.
I know of many instances where family members share a natural love and yet despise even hate the same person.
A love hate is not individually exclusive, the two emotions can bleed into each other.
On one hand there is the obligation to love and on the other is the emotion to hate at the same time.
Think about it. It is more common than you would think.