There are two strengths in this world and that is finances and sex. If you have the money you have domination and if you have sex appeal you have power.
Money will buy you control but sex appeal will undermine even the strongest. Sex appeal is not limited to the female population, indeed not, men can rule with sex as equally.
The rest of us, however, string along to normalcy.
So, if you have the finances you are there and if you have sex appeal then you have nailed it.